Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Falling behind

It is going to be a late night. Or two. Probably three.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

And more Farm Show

Today we had some great young men over to help us unload a semi truck of calf hutches and all the stuff that goes with them. And we loaded some other stuff on the truck and sent Jim the driver on his way to Tulare to unload it. I am so thankful for those young men. Without our boy here it would have been tough for Mr. R and I to do it alone, although we would have and then been incredibly sore the next few days. The girls have always been great help too - shifting and shoving those plastic houses and metal fences to the back of the truck.
Tomorrow I will start the packing - curtains, coffee cups, a big glass jar for the dinner drawing! Brochures, bags, and a toolbox full of wire, pins and a scissors (and other random stuff).
The weather channel says it's going to be 59 and sunny, but I know that those propane heaters will attract even the thickest skinned dairy farmers. Those heaters, the tents, the tables and chairs will go up tomorrow. "It's My Party" will set up the party. And we'll come in on Monday to decorate.
Hope you will come to our party!
In case you can't make it, I will post some pictures.

Monday, January 31, 2011

Farm Show

Farm show time again. Our annual meet and greet with thousands of our closest friends! Mr. R and I are getting ready.
Tents, chairs and tables - check!
Propane heaters and banners - check!
Hotel rooms reserved, dinner reservations - check!
Badges sent - check!
Other bajillion and a half details - getting there!

This year I am really excited for the show for few reasons:
1. Keith and Ruthie are coming back - the Bolsens are smart, funny, and wonderful people. They are coming to help in the booth and lend their expertise in silage making and safety. They are bona fide experts. And such a complete joy to be around.
2. New Silostop people - Jennifer from the UK and Jan from Poland are coming to expericence the show, see what is going on here in California and the west.
3. I am taking my banker friend to the show with me on Wednesday. Sheryl doesn't know a tremendous amount about agriculture, and I am going to try to show her (through the thousands of products at the show) the life of a dairy animal from birth to the inevitable end. I can't wait for her to meet the folks we work with and the clients we love, since I yap about them all the time to her.
4. I get to see lots of familiar old faces. People I don't see any other time of year.

Hepped up? You bet! This is going to be fun.

Friday, November 26, 2010

Silverware Box

Yesterday being Thanksgiving we got out the good stuff - fancy bowls we never use, china we got for a wedding present that we rarely use (no wonder I still have all the pieces), and the silverware we got for the occasion. It made for a special dinner and the roast beef, green beans, salad and smashed garlic potatoes tasted even better.
Madeline set the table, and when she got to the silverware part, we had to search for a minute to find the box (since we hadn't seen it since Christmas last year). There it was in the upper middle cabinet - the box.
It is a plain box, about nine inches by 14 inches, made of maple perhaps stained to a light color. It is very well made and contains not just the silverware, but a few other sentimental odds and ends.
Open it up and there is the piece of linen my mom carefully embroidered for one of her first 4-H projects. It could be a table runner or a cloth for a dresser or buffet. Light blue single stitches run along the sides, carefully counted and woven through the strands of cloth.
There is a note written to me from her, just as carefully crafted as the cloth, written to quickly say hello and remind me that she loved me. "Hope you are having a happy..." was always the subject of her little notes.
The box itself is special too - it was presented to my parents at an Eagle Creek dance over seventy years ago for being the most recently newlywed couple at the dance. She had kept her good silverware in it too. I would guess one of my girls will keep hers in it too.

Friday, May 1, 2009

Horcruxes

Carolyn, my niece wrote about horcruxes (think Harry Potter)in her blog and challenged her readers to think of and write about their own horcruxes - places where your soul has rubbed off. Although Voldemort used his for evil, like Carolyn said, the idea is actually pleasant - kind of a legacy we all leave. So here is my list:

1. The rock down by the creek in the cow pasture at the farm in Lake Elmo. It was a giant rock when I was a little girl. I could barely crawl up on there but when I did I could sing and think and talk to my pretend friends with out being teased by my big brother (guess who). I saw the rock later on a trip to MN after I had moved away to California. Of course it was not nearly as big, but it was still very special.
2. My doggie blanket. My mother made it for me and I always loved it and still do. She made a blanket for Catharine and Chris too. Catharine's is with her at school; it is pink and has kittens on one side. Chris uses his in his room here, it is green on one side and has Christmas elves on the other side. Appropriate for a holiday (Jan 1)baby.
3. A red and black wool jacket my mom used to wear raking leaves. Now I wear it raking leaves.
4. An ID pin from the World Dairy Expo Judging contest in 1981. That contest was a turning point in my life because I met my first boss there - Richard Denier from World Wide Sires in Hanford, CA.
5. Cayucos on the beach - in recent years when we visit there I feel more and more at home. The ocean and the water remind me of my past relatives who left everything - family, friends, land, and thier country of Sweden to come to the US. When I am there I fell like I have somewhat come full circle.
6. Our cows - Cows here are on a strictly two year or less revolving path. They don't stay here long, but just having them here is nice. Nothing better than going out late at night and giving them one more flake of hay or cleaning up the hay they tossed out of the trough and having them thankfully tear into it. Never thought I would say it was good to scrape up the hay at night! However, I don't have to go out in the extreme cold to do it. Rather, I like to do it on summer evenings after the scorching sun has set and the air is cool in the hollow where we keep them.
7. In the car/truck - I spend so much time driving - an hour to work, a half hour to baseball games, three and four hours to volleyball games plus all the little trips to town, school , practice. Sometimes I just drive with no radio, no CD to just be quiet for a while.
8. In the Fresno Convention Center, at the ball diamond, in a volleyball gym - These are the places my kids are at, and I spend so much time cheering them on, I work hard to inspire and I never criticize or compare one to the other.
Those are my horcruxes for now. As we grow and change, they move along with us, but like you said Carolyn, a part of us rubs off and remains.

Monday, April 20, 2009

Catharine's Blue Jacket

Today Catharine ended a chapter of her life - she wore her FFA jacket for the very, last, time. She served as chairman of the Nominating Committee for the CA State Association, as is customary of the past president. Because she does everything with vigor and intent, the process of working with the committee members, guiding them in finding 6 new officers was exhausting. But of course there is the added excitement of seeing her old teammates, old friends, and a multitude of special people in her life. And because there are not enough hours in the day, she of course has not slept more than 4 hours each night.
I could tell this was going to be a difficult moment for her - taking that jacket off, which became a second skin in her year of being state president, was like saying goodbye to an old friend you knew you would never see again. It will hang in her closet, but now will be a token, a special token at that, of the last six formative years of her life. It symbolizes her failings as well as her triumphs, and is the constant that kept her balanced as possible. She has won and lost great great things in that jacket, but I like to think that rather than tally those it is better to see how she has grown in that blue corduroy. She has learned about herself, made lifelong friends, and has developed into the confident young woman she is today.
We have all tagged along on this wild ride with her, ready to catch her when she fell, and prop her up. We rejoiced with her, and we cried with her.
The jacket, as she said, is just a uniform, just some cloth sewn together. The important part is what is inside.
I am so proud of her.

Saturday, January 24, 2009

It's a good day...


Welcome to my first blog entry. It's raining off and on today, and the yard is a mess of soggy leaves and Christmas reindeer that refuse to get in the garage. It is a good day to sit in the kitchen and drink coffee.
This has become one of my favorite things to say on days like this. I am actually quoting a sea-faring sailboat maintenance man from Bellingham, Washington. It was March of 1988, Ron and I had flown up to Seattle and took a tiny plane to Bellingham, excited to begin a week's worth of sailing lessons in the San Juan Islands. Ron had won a sales contest for Allflex tags, and the prize was a trip wherever you wanted to go in the US. Most people would have opted for Hawaii, Florida or Arizona, but we wanted the adventure of learning to sail in the San Juans at the most difficult time of year the Strait had to offer. As our puddle-jumping plane hopped, bopped, skipped and skidded to a sliding halt in high winds and rain, I held my breath at the thought of living aboard a sailboat in this kind of weather for a week.
We wobbled off the plane, collected our luggage and made our way to the nearest pay phone to call the charter company. Ron dialed them up.
"Yer gonna go out in the 28' footer, aye?" chuckled the voice on the other end of the line. "Have you seen the weather? It's a good day to sit in the kitchen and drink coffee."
Undaunted, we gathered up our things, made our way to the curb, and were picked up and taken to the marina where our 28 footer was waiting with her real captain, Chris. He was young, friendly, and had a twinkle in his eye. He showed us to our boat, and we had a little get to know you conference. What did we want to get out of this week's worth of sailing? Ron, who had plenty of sailing experience, wanted to become more adept with ocean-kinda sailing and learn about how to handle a boat in currents and tides. I, on the other hand, wanted to learn how to maintain my heartbeat, blood pressure and voice volume while sailing under rough conditions. I also wanted to be able to stop the boat under any circumstance so Ron would have time to swim to the boat after he had fallen off. I wanted to sail- not scream- for the week. It was obvious that Chris was amused at my goals, and was more serious and understanding of Ron's more intellectual goals.
Chris had prepared the boat well, and once we got all the groceries stowed, the sleeping bags in berths and accounted for all the equipment (I made sure we had life preservers for everyone), off we went.
Chris told me motor out of the marina, while he and Ron readied the sails and the sheets. Wow ! I could do this! The marina of course was protected and calm, and the break in the rain was nice. As we reached the breakwater, I called
"Okay! Someone else can get back here and steer this thing now!"
"Hey ! Time for someone else to do this part!"
"HEY!"
Too late. The guys were just coming around the main sail and hopped in the cockpit. They smiled (both of them), and assured me I was doing just fine. As we came around the breakwater and made our heading the wind hit, and I could tell this was not going to be a little sail across the bay to the island about 4 miles away. It was going to be ugly, torturous, and terrifying. In 30 knot winds, with swells of 10 feet, we made our way across. Water flying everywhere, over the bow, into the cockpit, it blew so hard I could hardly keep the boat right. I was shaking with fear, crying and screaming as the two guys sat there on the high side, smiling and ready to enjoy a beer. After the fear, anger took over, and I yelled and hollered at them to get over here and take the wheel. They assured me that by reefing the sail the boat would sail much better.
"SO - REEF IT!" I commanded. I figured that since I was at the wheel, I got to be the captain. So they crawled up on deck and drew down the sail one notch.
"You're doing great!" grinned Ron.
"Wow what a sailor!" cheered Chris.
"You are both JERKS!"
They just smiled and looked ahead, "enjoying" the ride, reefing the mainsail two more times until it resembled the size of a twin size bed sheet
This went on and on for about an hour and a half as we crossed the bay. When we finally reached the shadow of the island, and things calmed down, Chris got up, stretched and said, "Okay, Connie, I can take it from here. Why don't you go help Ron with the sails and I will take the wheel for a while?"
I didn't. I felt like I would probably have to have the lesson in what to do if Ron fell (was pushed) off the boat right there and then. Without a word to either of them, I went below to change out of my entirely soaked clothes.
Mostly, I didn't want them to see me smile at myself in the little cabin mirror, proud that I had sailed across that bay with it's winds and rain, on a day better left to "sit in the kitchen and drink coffee."